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		<title>By: In which I ponder the relationship between blogs &#38; guilds &#171; Ethermead</title>
		<link>http://www.hotsdots.com/2010/02/self-censored/comment-page-1/#comment-3110</link>
		<dc:creator>In which I ponder the relationship between blogs &#38; guilds &#171; Ethermead</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 17 Jun 2010 02:37:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] wrote Self Censored.  I thought more about [...]</description>
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		<title>By: Anonymity, Blogs, and Bloggers. &#124; Murloc Parliament</title>
		<link>http://www.hotsdots.com/2010/02/self-censored/comment-page-1/#comment-2687</link>
		<dc:creator>Anonymity, Blogs, and Bloggers. &#124; Murloc Parliament</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 16 May 2010 03:03:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] Cassandri&#8217;s musings before this became a big freakin deal,  Tam&#8217;s post that started it all and his follow up, Larisa on the issue, Indecent Healer, [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] Cassandri&#8217;s musings before this became a big freakin deal,  Tam&#8217;s post that started it all and his follow up, Larisa on the issue, Indecent Healer, [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Blogging About Your Guild &#171; Casual Hardcore</title>
		<link>http://www.hotsdots.com/2010/02/self-censored/comment-page-1/#comment-1837</link>
		<dc:creator>Blogging About Your Guild &#171; Casual Hardcore</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 15 Mar 2010 05:03:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] that’s flooded our little corner of the blogosphere the past few weeks. Several posts already exist right now about blogging publicly about your guild and more are being added every day. One reaction [...]</description>
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		<title>By: Anonymity, Blogs, and Bloggers. &#171; Cranky Healer</title>
		<link>http://www.hotsdots.com/2010/02/self-censored/comment-page-1/#comment-1672</link>
		<dc:creator>Anonymity, Blogs, and Bloggers. &#171; Cranky Healer</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 05 Mar 2010 15:52:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] Cassandri&#8217;s musings before this became a big freakin deal,  Tam&#8217;s post that started it all and his follow up, Larisa on the issue, Indecent Healer, [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] Cassandri&#8217;s musings before this became a big freakin deal,  Tam&#8217;s post that started it all and his follow up, Larisa on the issue, Indecent Healer, [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Advice on Blogging Safely Without Fear of a Gkick &#124; It burns when I PVP! &#124; MMORPGs</title>
		<link>http://www.hotsdots.com/2010/02/self-censored/comment-page-1/#comment-1631</link>
		<dc:creator>Advice on Blogging Safely Without Fear of a Gkick &#124; It burns when I PVP! &#124; MMORPGs</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 03 Mar 2010 11:04:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] There was a question on Twitter asked a few nights ago regarding the revealing of your blog to your guild. It eventually turned into this post by anea. I responded that I had no problem with it and that I encouraged it. After a bit more reading and research, I came across a rather disappointing story of a blogger who got the boot over their blog. Larisa detailed her own thoughts regarding the situation. The folks at Hots &amp; Dots listed their stance on it too. [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] There was a question on Twitter asked a few nights ago regarding the revealing of your blog to your guild. It eventually turned into this post by anea. I responded that I had no problem with it and that I encouraged it. After a bit more reading and research, I came across a rather disappointing story of a blogger who got the boot over their blog. Larisa detailed her own thoughts regarding the situation. The folks at Hots &amp; Dots listed their stance on it too. [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Advice on Blogging Safely Without Fear of a Gkick &#124; World of Matticus</title>
		<link>http://www.hotsdots.com/2010/02/self-censored/comment-page-1/#comment-1630</link>
		<dc:creator>Advice on Blogging Safely Without Fear of a Gkick &#124; World of Matticus</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 03 Mar 2010 10:39:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] There was a question on Twitter asked a few nights ago regarding the revealing of your blog to your guild. It eventually turned into this post by anea. I responded that I had no problem with it and that I encouraged it. After a bit more reading and research, I came across a rather disappointing story of a blogger who got the boot over their blog. Larisa detailed her own thoughts regarding the situation. The folks at Hots &amp; Dots listed their stance on it too. [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] There was a question on Twitter asked a few nights ago regarding the revealing of your blog to your guild. It eventually turned into this post by anea. I responded that I had no problem with it and that I encouraged it. After a bit more reading and research, I came across a rather disappointing story of a blogger who got the boot over their blog. Larisa detailed her own thoughts regarding the situation. The folks at Hots &amp; Dots listed their stance on it too. [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Beruthiel</title>
		<link>http://www.hotsdots.com/2010/02/self-censored/comment-page-1/#comment-1514</link>
		<dc:creator>Beruthiel</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 19 Feb 2010 17:11:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I feel your pain!

I&#039;ve only set one rule for myself with regards to what I blog about my guild: Only write what you would openly state to anyone in the guild.

If I wouldn&#039;t openly state it in guild chat, or to the person I&#039;m blogging about, then I shouldn&#039;t blog about it in a public venue, where anyone can read it.  I will frequently change the names of people when I talk about direct instances, but I also would have openly had the conversation that I blog about with those involved.  I don&#039;t openly advertise my blog within the guild, but a fair few of my guildmates have stumbled upon it :)

However, my one rule has served me fairly well I think.  Perhaps it might help you a bit too!
.-= Beruthiel&#039;s last blog ... &lt;a href=&quot;http://fallingleavesandwings.wordpress.com/2010/02/18/its-been-fun-thanks-for-all-the-pet-biscuits-udi/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;It’s Been Fun, Thanks for All the Pet Biscuits UDI!&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I feel your pain!</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve only set one rule for myself with regards to what I blog about my guild: Only write what you would openly state to anyone in the guild.</p>
<p>If I wouldn&#8217;t openly state it in guild chat, or to the person I&#8217;m blogging about, then I shouldn&#8217;t blog about it in a public venue, where anyone can read it.  I will frequently change the names of people when I talk about direct instances, but I also would have openly had the conversation that I blog about with those involved.  I don&#8217;t openly advertise my blog within the guild, but a fair few of my guildmates have stumbled upon it <img src='http://www.hotsdots.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>However, my one rule has served me fairly well I think.  Perhaps it might help you a bit too!<br />
.-= Beruthiel&#8217;s last blog &#8230; <a href="http://fallingleavesandwings.wordpress.com/2010/02/18/its-been-fun-thanks-for-all-the-pet-biscuits-udi/" rel="nofollow">It’s Been Fun, Thanks for All the Pet Biscuits UDI!</a> =-.</p>
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		<title>By: Ophelie</title>
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		<dc:creator>Ophelie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 19 Feb 2010 16:07:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>It&#039;s an interesting topic and one that I think about constantly. Shortly after I joined my guild, I had a chat with the GM about my blog and what I should and shouldn&#039;t write about. He told me to write about whatever I wanted, that it wouldn&#039;t change the way I would be treated. It wasn&#039;t helpful, but at least we were on the same page. 

I, personally, portray my guild in a positive light as much as possible. I talk about the good and am very vague about the bad. I don&#039;t see it as lying - if anyone assumes from my writing that all is always rosy and shiny, they obviously don&#039;t know anything about guilds. When I do write about bad stuff, I write about it in a constructive tone, then wait until the storm has blown over before publishing. For example, we went through a phase were there was a lot of complaining. I waited until the everyone forgot about it, then wrote about effective complaining techniques. 

Other rules I set for  myself are to never call people by name unless I have their permission, to never use my blog as an alternative for direct communication, to keep my guildie teasing very affectionate and to address all negative topics constructively: if I talk about a problem, the main focus is the solutions. 

I&#039;m also very open my blog in my guild, and I encourage other bloggers to be too. It&#039;s a great feeling to have guildies comment, or talk to me in game about something I&#039;ve written.
.-= Ophelie&#039;s last blog ... &lt;a href=&quot;http://bossypally.wordpress.com/2010/02/15/love-is-in-singles-appreciation-day/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Love is in Singles Appreciation Day&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It&#8217;s an interesting topic and one that I think about constantly. Shortly after I joined my guild, I had a chat with the GM about my blog and what I should and shouldn&#8217;t write about. He told me to write about whatever I wanted, that it wouldn&#8217;t change the way I would be treated. It wasn&#8217;t helpful, but at least we were on the same page. </p>
<p>I, personally, portray my guild in a positive light as much as possible. I talk about the good and am very vague about the bad. I don&#8217;t see it as lying &#8211; if anyone assumes from my writing that all is always rosy and shiny, they obviously don&#8217;t know anything about guilds. When I do write about bad stuff, I write about it in a constructive tone, then wait until the storm has blown over before publishing. For example, we went through a phase were there was a lot of complaining. I waited until the everyone forgot about it, then wrote about effective complaining techniques. </p>
<p>Other rules I set for  myself are to never call people by name unless I have their permission, to never use my blog as an alternative for direct communication, to keep my guildie teasing very affectionate and to address all negative topics constructively: if I talk about a problem, the main focus is the solutions. </p>
<p>I&#8217;m also very open my blog in my guild, and I encourage other bloggers to be too. It&#8217;s a great feeling to have guildies comment, or talk to me in game about something I&#8217;ve written.<br />
.-= Ophelie&#8217;s last blog &#8230; <a href="http://bossypally.wordpress.com/2010/02/15/love-is-in-singles-appreciation-day/" rel="nofollow">Love is in Singles Appreciation Day</a> =-.</p>
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		<title>By: Cassandri</title>
		<link>http://www.hotsdots.com/2010/02/self-censored/comment-page-1/#comment-1512</link>
		<dc:creator>Cassandri</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 19 Feb 2010 11:48:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hopefully you&#039;re right and just by thinking &quot;I don&#039;t feel right about publishing this&quot; will ensure I never cross the line. I&#039;ve yet to publish anything that&#039;s caused me drama in-game, so maybe I&#039;m on the right track.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hopefully you&#8217;re right and just by thinking &#8220;I don&#8217;t feel right about publishing this&#8221; will ensure I never cross the line. I&#8217;ve yet to publish anything that&#8217;s caused me drama in-game, so maybe I&#8217;m on the right track.</p>
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		<title>By: Cassandri</title>
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		<dc:creator>Cassandri</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 19 Feb 2010 11:44:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Amber is an excellent example - she never uses guild drama or guild events to construct her topics yet if you read between the lines you can see how much what happening in her guild is affecting her. For example, I think she mentioned her promotion to Guild Master as a footnote to another post and she never spoke or complained about what circumstances brought that around.

In today (or yesterday&#039;s?) Bury the Corpse I think she shows that some of her guildies are complaining and glorifying the guild of the past - before she took over. We have that problem in Vitare, too.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Amber is an excellent example &#8211; she never uses guild drama or guild events to construct her topics yet if you read between the lines you can see how much what happening in her guild is affecting her. For example, I think she mentioned her promotion to Guild Master as a footnote to another post and she never spoke or complained about what circumstances brought that around.</p>
<p>In today (or yesterday&#8217;s?) Bury the Corpse I think she shows that some of her guildies are complaining and glorifying the guild of the past &#8211; before she took over. We have that problem in Vitare, too.</p>
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