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	<title>Comments on: Girls Have a Sense of Humor Too!</title>
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		<title>By: Lathere</title>
		<link>http://www.hotsdots.com/2009/08/girls-have-a-sense-of-humor-too/comment-page-1/#comment-324</link>
		<dc:creator>Lathere</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 07 Sep 2009 07:23:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Lol thats fair enough - I was a deer caught in the headlights!!!! I couldn&#039;t move :P It&#039;s just a pity others also didn&#039;t move lol.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Lol thats fair enough &#8211; I was a deer caught in the headlights!!!! I couldn&#8217;t move <img src='http://www.hotsdots.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_razz.gif' alt=':P' class='wp-smiley' />  It&#8217;s just a pity others also didn&#8217;t move lol.</p>
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		<title>By: PapaNasty</title>
		<link>http://www.hotsdots.com/2009/08/girls-have-a-sense-of-humor-too/comment-page-1/#comment-323</link>
		<dc:creator>PapaNasty</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 07 Sep 2009 00:36:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>haha don&#039;t worry about it, that was Buff I think, his sarcasm comes out sounding sorta serious a lot of the time (Same with Jugg / Solo aswell).

Everyone gets your sarcasm I think :)  We don&#039;t really think you&#039;re a ditzy blonde 

Although in saying that, I&#039;m NOT going to mark you for everyone to follow during firefighter again!!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>haha don&#8217;t worry about it, that was Buff I think, his sarcasm comes out sounding sorta serious a lot of the time (Same with Jugg / Solo aswell).</p>
<p>Everyone gets your sarcasm I think <img src='http://www.hotsdots.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />   We don&#8217;t really think you&#8217;re a ditzy blonde </p>
<p>Although in saying that, I&#8217;m NOT going to mark you for everyone to follow during firefighter again!!</p>
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		<title>By: Kristine</title>
		<link>http://www.hotsdots.com/2009/08/girls-have-a-sense-of-humor-too/comment-page-1/#comment-288</link>
		<dc:creator>Kristine</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 02 Sep 2009 09:26:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I try not to let gender become an issue when I play. Like most other girl gamers I want to be respected for my game and social skills, not for having a vagina. 

So, it makes me sad when those around me think I need protecting from rude jokes, or that I dont know how sarcasm work. Like someone doing a joke about young girls &quot;if its grass on the field lets play, if not roll around and play in the mud&quot; (admittedly not the best of jokes, but thats beside the point). And then having someone go &quot;Its ok Kris, they dont really mean it. They wouldnt really do it&quot;. 

Like somehow being female means I dont understand what a joke is, or that I am unable to deal with it on my own if I find it offensive.
.-= Kristine&#039;s last blog ... &lt;a href=&quot;http://kristineask.com/?p=170&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Skill and gear: Who’s myth is really being debunked?&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I try not to let gender become an issue when I play. Like most other girl gamers I want to be respected for my game and social skills, not for having a vagina. </p>
<p>So, it makes me sad when those around me think I need protecting from rude jokes, or that I dont know how sarcasm work. Like someone doing a joke about young girls &#8220;if its grass on the field lets play, if not roll around and play in the mud&#8221; (admittedly not the best of jokes, but thats beside the point). And then having someone go &#8220;Its ok Kris, they dont really mean it. They wouldnt really do it&#8221;. </p>
<p>Like somehow being female means I dont understand what a joke is, or that I am unable to deal with it on my own if I find it offensive.<br />
.-= Kristine&#8217;s last blog &#8230; <a href="http://kristineask.com/?p=170" rel="nofollow">Skill and gear: Who’s myth is really being debunked?</a> =-.</p>
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		<title>By: Zahrah</title>
		<link>http://www.hotsdots.com/2009/08/girls-have-a-sense-of-humor-too/comment-page-1/#comment-280</link>
		<dc:creator>Zahrah</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 01 Sep 2009 01:34:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>He was being a bit of an Twit...</description>
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		<title>By: Cassandri</title>
		<link>http://www.hotsdots.com/2009/08/girls-have-a-sense-of-humor-too/comment-page-1/#comment-279</link>
		<dc:creator>Cassandri</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 31 Aug 2009 13:06:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Personally I think all the guys in the guild are too worried they might offend us to actually relax and listen to the tone of voice. Doesn&#039;t help that the other two girls in the guild are kinda scary. (Well they scare me)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Personally I think all the guys in the guild are too worried they might offend us to actually relax and listen to the tone of voice. Doesn&#8217;t help that the other two girls in the guild are kinda scary. (Well they scare me)</p>
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		<title>By: Tam</title>
		<link>http://www.hotsdots.com/2009/08/girls-have-a-sense-of-humor-too/comment-page-1/#comment-278</link>
		<dc:creator>Tam</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 31 Aug 2009 12:33:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Ye gods.  First of all, it&#039;s not you, and it&#039;s not that you&#039;re not funny.

The thing about not being able to say you&#039;re lovely because he didn&#039;t know what you looked like is a textbook example of male WoW player being utterly crap to a female WoW player.  This doesn&#039;t in any way make it okay, and yes, you&#039;re right, it&#039;s a terrible terrible thing to say, and you were right to call him on it.   Obviously he&#039;s just crass sand clueless but still.  I can only guess he himself failed to understand the nature of the banter (I call our healer &#039;lovely&#039; all the time, and he&#039;s a zombie).  All the same, definitely no HEALZ for him, not until he gets a fecking clue.

I hope you&#039;re not too demoralised.  I&#039;m less forgiving than the poster above - I think they&#039;re a bunch of dopes :)
.-= Tam&#039;s last blog ... &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.righteousorbs.com/?p=697&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;So I Think I’ve Mentioned This Before…&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ye gods.  First of all, it&#8217;s not you, and it&#8217;s not that you&#8217;re not funny.</p>
<p>The thing about not being able to say you&#8217;re lovely because he didn&#8217;t know what you looked like is a textbook example of male WoW player being utterly crap to a female WoW player.  This doesn&#8217;t in any way make it okay, and yes, you&#8217;re right, it&#8217;s a terrible terrible thing to say, and you were right to call him on it.   Obviously he&#8217;s just crass sand clueless but still.  I can only guess he himself failed to understand the nature of the banter (I call our healer &#8216;lovely&#8217; all the time, and he&#8217;s a zombie).  All the same, definitely no HEALZ for him, not until he gets a fecking clue.</p>
<p>I hope you&#8217;re not too demoralised.  I&#8217;m less forgiving than the poster above &#8211; I think they&#8217;re a bunch of dopes <img src='http://www.hotsdots.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /><br />
.-= Tam&#8217;s last blog &#8230; <a href="http://www.righteousorbs.com/?p=697" rel="nofollow">So I Think I’ve Mentioned This Before…</a> =-.</p>
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		<title>By: Ihra</title>
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		<dc:creator>Ihra</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 31 Aug 2009 10:53:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Just unperceived, I think. We&#039;ve pretty well caught onto realising that the written word can be massively misinterpreted (in emails, etc) b/c it lacks so many of the critical components of FtF interaction. But people are a little slower to notice that voice chat without any facial expressions or body language can still have a wide possibility of misinterpretation. 

So they don&#039;t get silly, OR sarcastic? What are they, more like...slapstick guildies? I have a hard time seeing how that kind of humour could be executed in gchat / vent :-P.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Just unperceived, I think. We&#8217;ve pretty well caught onto realising that the written word can be massively misinterpreted (in emails, etc) b/c it lacks so many of the critical components of FtF interaction. But people are a little slower to notice that voice chat without any facial expressions or body language can still have a wide possibility of misinterpretation. </p>
<p>So they don&#8217;t get silly, OR sarcastic? What are they, more like&#8230;slapstick guildies? I have a hard time seeing how that kind of humour could be executed in gchat / vent <img src='http://www.hotsdots.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_razz.gif' alt=':-P' class='wp-smiley' /> .</p>
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